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<p>Guys can sometimes be a little self-conscious, but that feeling can paralyze men with low self-esteem. </p>
<p>If you’ve been wondering whether your guy has low self-esteem, there are subtle signs that can help you identify that he might. </p>
<p>And if you’re concerned, act sooner rather than later to work on the problems together –  or decide to move on if necessary. </p>
<p>Let’s explore the characteristics of guys with <strong>low self-esteem</strong> and how you can help them feel better about themselves.</p>
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<h2 id="0-what-causes-low-self-esteem-in-a-man">What Causes Low Self-Esteem in a Man?</h2>
<p>Low self-esteem is quite common in men. </p>
<p>Several factors can contribute to men being dissatisfied with their looks, social life, and personal life. </p>
<p>Below are seven leading causes of low self-esteem in men.</p>
<h3 id="1-1-comparison-to-other-guys">1. Comparison to Other Guys</h3>
<p>Guys are often critical of themselves and emphasize their perceived shortcomings compared to other men. They tend to look at the negative rather than the positive aspects of their lives and themselves. </p>
<p>This tendency can lead to feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem. Men should compare themselves to realistic standards, not to others who have different values than they do.</p>
<h3 id="2-2-dating-pressure">2. Dating Pressure</h3>
<p>Men are taught from a young age to avoid showing vulnerability, so their dating experiences often leave them feeling insecure about their value as men.</p>
<p> Men also try to strive for perfection, which can leave them feeling inadequate or that they don’t match the competition in the dating pool.</p>
<h3 id="3-3-gender-stereotypes">3. Gender Stereotypes</h3>
<p>Men often feel inferior to stereotypes of masculinity. Many male children and young men were once discouraged from showing emotion. </p>
<p>Young boys learn to accept that being feminine is wrong, and they shouldn’t reveal any typically feminine interests or emotions. </p>
<p>With so few role models validating their feelings, it’s no wonder many men have low self-esteem and don’t feel comfortable in their skin.</p>
<h3 id="4-4-mental-health-issues-or-trauma">4. Mental Health Issues or Trauma</h3>
<p>Anxiety and depression make many guys feel inferior. Mental health disorders might make you feel “less than” others even if you don’t consider yourself that way. </p>
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<p>Lack of self-esteem can be caused by sexual abuse, domestic violence, lack of validation, or feeling unwanted as a child. Adverse events leave mental and physical scars that affect how you see yourself.</p>
<h3 id="5-5-body-image-issues">5. Body Image Issues</h3>
<p>Many men are exposed to attractiveness and thinness ideals from a young age in our appearance-obsessed culture. </p>
<p>False standards can still affect adults as our culture also glorifies conventionally attractive women. Therefore, advertisers often portray their ideal lady based on how she looks, which can make men self-conscious and insecure.</p>
<h3 id="6-6-fear-of-failure">6. Fear of Failure</h3>
<p>People sometimes feel like failures if they don’t achieve their goals. Low self-esteem can cause problems in men’s lives, although many don’t realize it. </p>
<p>People tend to feel like they’re letting people down or embarrassing themselves when things go wrong. This can lead to low self-esteem among guys, who may feel like losers if they aren’t accomplished.</p>
<h3 id="7-7-lack-of-validation-from-others">7. Lack of Validation from Others</h3>
<p>Men need external validation of their abilities and accomplishments to feel a sense of self-worth. </p>
<p>Being told that you are competent or talented will not typically cut it for most men. Men need affirmations and positive feedback from the people they care about and from potential love interests.</p>
<h2 id="8-13-characteristics-of-a-man-with-low-self-esteem">13 Characteristics of a Man with Low Self-Esteem</h2>
<p>Many men have low self-esteem. While not necessarily a secret, some of them are not so obvious. These are 13 signs of low self-esteem in a man.</p>
<h3 id="9-1-he-berates-you-and-others-without-cause">1. He berates you (and others) without cause.</h3>
<p>A man with low self-esteem is a man that feels inferior to others and needs to prove himself continually. He may believe others will recognize his superiority if he criticizes them. </p>
<p>This behavior is toxic and can make people feel uncomfortable and even retaliatory. A man with low self-esteem typically walks around with a chip on his shoulder.</p>
<h3 id="10-2-your-sex-life-is-less-than-ideal">2. Your sex life is less than ideal.</h3>
<p>His moodiness and lack of self-confidence impede physical intimacy and communication. This can cause issues in a relationship, as well as in daily life. </p>
<p>It can be hard to get your partner to open up when they feel inferior, so they tend to keep things to themselves.</p>
<p> This can make sexual activity feel like an obligation instead of something desirable, making your partner feel guilty and worsening the problem. </p>
<p>It can also make it harder for him to reach out for help if he needs it. Low self-esteem can make it harder for your partner to feel okay about asking for what he needs.</p>
<h3 id="11-3-he%E2%80%99s-defensive-and-blames-others">3. He’s defensive and blames others.</h3>
<p>He dislikes being exposed and vulnerable, so he meets any criticism with his vehement denial.</p>
<p>When confronted, a man with low self-esteem will say, “I’m not doing that. That’s just who I am.” When criticized, he’ll deny it, pretend it didn’t happen or make it a joke. </p>
<p>He ignores or blames his flaws when confronted with them. He’ll feel like others are out to get him when they criticize or point out his shortcomings. </p>
<p>He may withdraw from others or start fights or arguments. Most do it to avoid feeling bad about themselves.</p>
<h3 id="12-4-he-looks-outside-himself-for-contentment-and-fulfillment">4. He looks outside himself for contentment and fulfillment.</h3>
<p>He finds worth in his job, career, finances, romantic relationships, appearance, or other external sources. Most of these things can’t fulfill our desires nor give us more. </p>
<p>They can’t fill our void. A man with low self-esteem may need constant validation from external sources to feel worthy. </p>
<p>When we love and accept ourselves, we can start to accept and value the unique individual rather than the roles we play.</p>
<h3 id="13-5-he-doesn%E2%80%99t-feel-loveable-or-desirable">5. He doesn’t feel loveable or desirable.</h3>
<p>He can’t see why anybody would fall in love with him. Because he has low self-esteem, he believes he must be repulsive to the opposite sex. </p>
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<p>He may think he is too fat, too skinny, has ugly facial features, has an unattractive body, is not good enough, not smart enough, or not a good lover. </p>
<p>A man with low self-worth may not call often or send you enough messages to make you feel valued or compliment you enough to feel appreciated. </p>
<p>When he doesn’t feel good about himself, he has trouble expressing positive feelings about others.</p>
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<h3 id="14-6-he-acts-insecure-and-feels-shameful">6. He acts insecure and feels shameful.</h3>
<p>Everything he does causes him to feel guilty, and he doesn’t know how to stop being apologetic.</p>
<p>A man with low self-esteem will suffer a lot, feel sorry for himself, and not understand what he does that affects the people around him. </p>
<p>He’ll keep apologizing because he doesn’t feel like he deserves better. He’ll be hard on himself and feel like he’s not successful or good enough. </p>
<p>And sometimes, he’ll act like a child, making excuses and blaming others.</p>
<h3 id="15-7-he-shifts-blame">7. He shifts blame.</h3>
<p>He puts his self-doubt on you, shifting the responsibility from himself to you. Instead of owning up to his feelings and actions, he blames you. </p>
<p>He may gaslight you by telling you that you are overreacting or exaggerating his behavior. </p>
<p>He may also try to diminish your feelings,  dismiss your opinions, or tell you you’re too sensitive. He may even tell you you’re overreacting or being too complex.</p>
<h3 id="16-8-he-has-trouble-making-decisions">8. He has trouble making decisions.</h3>
<p>Men with low self-esteem often seek validation from others when they feel down, but they may receive the wrong kind. </p>
<p>He may feel inadequate if he must make decisions that affect others, such as hiring staff or deciding what to do with his assets. </p>
<p>This issue can result from feeling like he’s not good enough or that his opinion doesn’t matter. His insecurity can also make him feel not in control of his own life, further decreasing his self-esteem.</p>
<h3 id="17-9-he-carries-himself-uncomfortably">9. He carries himself uncomfortably.</h3>
<p>His demeanor lacks confidence, and he refuses to accept compliments. Low self-esteem does not allow a man to perceive his value. </p>
<p>This deficiency manifests in how he carries himself, his interactions with people, and his overall approach to social situations. He is uncomfortable with praise and will deflect it with a negative comment. </p>
<p>He may become somewhat of a hermit, preferring to spend time with people who make him feel good about himself rather than seek out those who may challenge him.</p>
<h3 id="18-10-he-has-a-victim-mentality">10. He has a victim mentality.</h3>
<p>This mentality manifests itself as constant pessimism and jealousy. He sees the world as dangerous and is always worried about being attacked and criticized. </p>
<p>He perceives himself as a victim and believes he deserves whatever he gets. When he feels inadequate, he may experience physical symptoms, such as headaches, stomachaches, or muscle pains. </p>
<p>These ailments can make him seem weak, passive, and indecisive, but it’s a way to avoid mental anguish. His intense emotions make him view others as enemies. When wronged, he may lash out.</p>
<h3 id="19-11-he-has-anxious-body-language">11. He has anxious body language.</h3>
<p>This behavior can manifest in fidgeting, avoiding eye contact, clenching hands, rubbing his neck, twitching, pacing, or sighing. </p>
<p>He may stand with his arms crossed or slouch or lean away from the person to whom he’s talking. </p>
<p>Non-verbal communication can tell you a lot about how a guy feels about himself. If a guy exhibits many dismissive or aloof body language cues, it might be a sign that he doesn’t regard himself well.</p>
<h3 id="20-12-he%E2%80%99s-an-indifferent-listener-and-seems-self-centered">12. He’s an indifferent listener and seems self-centered.</h3>
<p>He has trouble imagining another’s situation. It’s hard for him to put himself in anyone else’s shoes. </p>
<p>He’s a poser and will wear a mask to act confident. He desperately tries to fake confidence when he doesn’t feel it. He may listen carefully and seem eager to learn when you talk to him. To show interest, he may repeat what you said. </p>
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<p>But though he looks open to advice and new experiences, he won’t ask for help because he’s insecure. He may be critical of others and see them as incompetent, but these are just deflections revealing his feelings about himself.</p>
<h3 id="21-13-he-feels-inferior-to-others">13. He feels inferior to others.</h3>
<p>His inferiority may cause him to compare you to others or the “ideal woman” and feel you aren’t good enough, despite your efforts to make him feel valued. </p>
<p>Because he feels inadequate or like a failure, he needs you to make him look good and boost his fragile ego. </p>
<p>He’ll avoid situations where he might feel inferior to others. It causes him to withdraw from social settings and avoid activities that require him to be around other men. </p>
<h2 id="22-how-to-support-your-man-with-low-self-esteem">How to Support Your Man with Low Self-Esteem</h2>
<p>Low self-esteem can have a detrimental impact on your relationship. </p>
<p>For men, you must understand that low self-esteem is not a character flaw. It has a root cause that you must address through therapy, practice, and patience.</p>
<p>If your partner has low self-esteem, you can help him feel better by showing love and acceptance. You can do a few things to support your partner with low self-esteem.</p>
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<li><strong>Be patient.</strong> Building self-esteem can take time to develop and change. Be willing to be there for your partner as he learns new skills or grows as a person.</li>
<li><strong>Provide reassurance.</strong> If your partner has low self-esteem, he may hesitate to ask for help or admit that he needs help. Reassure him that you are there to support him when he needs it.</li>
<li><strong>Respect his boundaries.</strong> If your partner has low self-esteem, he may have certain limits you need to respect. For example, he may not want to talk about his feelings if he doesn’t feel comfortable. Don’t push him too much in this area; give him the space and security to open up when he wants to.</li>
<li><strong>Model positive behavior.</strong> Men need to see that it’s okay to like themselves and that other people value them. When he sees you demonstrating these traits, he may be more inclined to adopt them.</li>
<li><strong>Listen and offer genuine empathy.</strong> He may feel misunderstood or alone, so validating his feelings can go a long way toward helping him feel less isolated.</li>
<li><strong>Try not to take too much credit for his accomplishments</strong>. This can make him feel insecure about his abilities. Instead, focus on what you have done together as a team and celebrate your achievements as a couple.</li>
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<p>Low self-esteem can be caused by trauma, mental illness, and professional and social pressures. If you notice any characteristics of low self-esteem in your man, it is best to approach him with words of encouragement and love. </p>
<p>A man can elevate his self-esteem by first recognizing that it’s lacking. Then he must work on self-acceptance and try to improve whatever he can.</p>
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<p>After I was taught the concept of lovingkindness – which, in a nutshell, means to allow things to be as they are and accept them as they come – I was fascinated by it’s simple yet powerful message. As I sunk deeper into its teachings and started applying it to my own life, I began to wonder: can you really cultivate a better relationship with the world around you just by changing your perspective?</p>
<p>As someone who has dealt with everything from cystic acne to <a href="https://inthemirra.com/blogs/news/eczema-with-skincare?_pos=1&amp;_sid=2d97b7d70&amp;_ss=r">severe eczema</a>, I’ve had my fair share of low self-esteem moments. By applying the teachings of mindfulness and lovingkindness to all facets of my life, though, I’ve been able to bring back a new, improved type of healing that I, truthfully, never knew I needed – even when it comes to my skincare ritual.</p>
<p>Looking for ways to improve your relationship with your skin? Tired of feeling frustrated and defeated when you look in the mirror, despite how many expensive oils and treatments you lather on? It might be time to cultivate a healthier relationship with your skin and start accepting what you can’t control (aka, everything). Here’s a few quick ways to apply the concepts of mindfulness and lovingkindness to your ritual and start loving yourself 100%.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #33cccc;">Speak Kind Words </span></h3>
<p>The way we speak to ourselves really does make a difference in our overall wellbeing. After all, if you’re spending all your time hating your skin and critiquing every “flaw”, you probably aren’t going to feel very good about it, are you? Instead, here’s permission to give yourself a break in the <a href="https://inthemirra.com/blogs/news/positive-mindset-tips?_pos=1&amp;_sid=bc522f668&amp;_ss=r">form of a compliment</a>.</p>
<p>It sounds silly, but there’s a reason the word <em>kind </em>appears so much in the practice of mindfulness &amp; lovingkindness. We often extend the most grace to others, but when it comes to ourselves, we tend to fall short. We’re even less likely to do so if there’s something that we don’t like about ourselves, such as our skin.</p>
<p>The next time you see something you don’t like, refrain from being critical of it right away. Instead, find something kind to say to yourself in that moment. Although it seems small, even one moment of kindness towards yourself can plant the seed of self-love, which only blooms the more you do it. Give it a go for a week and see how you feel after.</p>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #33cccc;">Slow Yourself Down </span></h3>
<p>It’s easy to blow through your day without paying much attention to the little things that happen, especially when you’re juggling multiple important tasks at once. But part of mindfulness is about slowing life down and being intentional with each action you take, so why not take advantage of this concept in your skincare ritual?</p>
<p>Even if you can’t slow down the majority of your life, you can carve out a few extra minutes to give your skin the attention it’s craving from you, especially if it’s irritated or inflamed. Even if your skin mood isn’t ideal, taking your time applying each cream and lotion is an act of self-love in itself. Appreciate the feeling of every product – what does it feel like to apply your moisturizer? How does your skin react to your nightly oil?</p>
<p>Bringing mindfulness to your ritual is a way to press pause on the hectic hamster wheel of life and gives you a chance to truly relish in the luxury of taking care of your body with intention. Most importantly, taking a break from the constant go-go-go of life is important to managing stress, a major contributing factor in angry skin moods.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #33cccc;">Find Your Moment Of Zen </span></h3>
<p>Even if you slow your ritual down, you can still feel distracted or otherwise occupied while going through the motions – and that’s ok. Part of mindfulness is observing your thoughts and feelings as they occur, but not attaching yourself to or judging them.</p>
<p>If your skincare ritual feels too involved and you can’t relax while you do it, there’s other opportunities to practice lovingkindness and mindfulness that are beneficial. Love a good mask moment? Why not put one on for 15-20 minutes and sit with your thoughts while it works it’s magic?</p>
<p>If you’re familiar with the practice of meditation, you can use this time to do so – apps like Headspace make it easy to fit meditation into whatever pocket of time you have. If meditation isn’t your jam, though, no pressure –  you can simply sit in a quiet, calm place and observe your thoughts as they come. Be sure to notice your breath and be intentional with each inhale and exhale, as well.</p>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #33cccc;">Keep A Skin Journal </span></h3>
<p>Putting your thoughts on paper can provide a valuable perspective on your relationship with yourself, especially when it comes to your skin. Jotting down your thoughts can help cut through the static of everyday life and get you to the root of why you feel the way you do. It’s also a great way to log any changes to your complexion, which is a great way to ensure your ritual is still beneficial, or if it could use some tweaking to better serve you.</p>
<p>Try setting aside 5 minutes after you complete your skincare ritual to check in and write about your feelings towards skin. It doesn’t matter what you say or how you say it, so don’t get stuck in the minutiae – the important thing is to lay it all out and observe your thoughts afterward. What patterns do you notice? How do you feel after re-reading your own words?</p>
<p>Whether it’s adding extra “me” time or logging your perception, you may be surprised at what you notice when you’re intentional with your actions and incorporate the art of mindfulness into your skincare ritual.</p>
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<p>Honesty.</p>
<p>Such an important but sometimes tough thing to stay true to.</p>
<p>It’s often easier to just tell a white or perhaps even darker lie. To skirt around how you really think and feel.</p>
<p>But even though it might be tough there is also so much to be gained from being more honest both with yourself and the people in your life:</p>
<ul>
<li>The more honest you can be with yourself the easier it will be to be who you deep down want to be but also to improve aspects of your life that are truly in need of that.</li>
<li>The more honest you are with both yourself and others the more your self-respect, your relationships and your confidence in yourself will improve.</li>
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<p>So in this post I’d like to share the most thought-provoking and uplifting quotes and thoughts on honesty from the past 2000+ years.</p>
<p>And if you want more inspiration then have a look at this post with quotes on regret and this one filled with quotes on compassion.</p>
<h2>Inspiring Honesty Quotes to Help You Live Your Best Life</h2>
<p>“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”<br /><strong>Oscar Wilde</strong></p>
<p>“The real things haven&#8217;t changed. It is still best to be honest and truthful; to make the most of what we have; to be happy with simple pleasures; and have courage when things go wrong.”<br /><strong>Laura Ingalls Wilder</strong></p>
<p>“Integrity is telling myself the truth. And honesty is telling the truth to other people.”<br /><strong>Spencer Johnson</strong></p>
<p>“It&#8217;s discouraging to think how many people are shocked by honesty and how few by deceit.”<br /><strong>Noël Coward</strong></p>
<p>“Honesty is always the best policy, even when it’s not the trend.”<br /><strong>Sean Covey</strong></p>
<p>“To conceal anything from those to whom I am attached, is not in my nature. I can never close my lips where I have opened my heart.”<br /><strong>Charles Dickens</strong></p>
<p>“You can fool some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time, but you can not fool all of the people all of the time.”<br /><strong>Abraham Lincoln</strong></p>
<p>“Don’t ever regret being honest. Period.”<br /><strong>Taylor Swift</strong></p>
<p>“All cruel people describe themselves as paragons of frankness.”<br /><strong>Tennessee Williams</strong></p>
<p>“Remember that wherever your heart is, there you will find your treasure.”<br /><strong>Paulo Coelho</strong></p>
<p>“The line between honesty and dishonesty is a narrow, shifting one and usually lets those get by that are the most subtle and already have more than they can use.”<br /><strong>Clarence Darrow</strong></p>
<p>“Honesty is the first chapter of the book of wisdom.”<br /><strong>Thomas Jefferson</strong></p>
<p>“You ask me what forces me to speak? A strange thing; my conscience.”<br /><strong>Victor Hugo</strong></p>
<p>“Unless you&#8217;re ashamed of yourself now and then, you&#8217;re not honest”<br /><strong>William Faulkner</strong></p>
<p>“When you give yourself permission to communicate what matters to you in every situation you will have peace despite rejection or disapproval. Putting a voice to your soul helps you to let go of the negative energy of fear and regret.”<br /><strong>Shannon L. Alder</strong></p>
<p>“Being honest may not get you a lot of friends but it’ll always get you the right ones.”<br /><strong>John Lennon</strong></p>
<p>“It takes strength and courage to admit the truth.”<br /><strong>Rick Riordan</strong></p>
<p>“You are honest enough by nature to be able to see and judge your own self clearly – and that is a great thing. Never lose that honesty – always be honest with yourself.”<br /><strong>Enid Blyton</strong></p>
<p>“When we speak we are afraid our words will not be heard or welcomed. But when we are silent, we are still afraid. So it is better to speak.”<br /><strong>Audre Lorde</strong></p>
<p>“Nothing is so difficult as not deceiving oneself.”<br /><strong>Ludwig Wittgenstein</strong></p>
<p>“Just be honest with yourself. That opens the door.”<br /><strong>Vernon Howard</strong></p>
<p>“I admire honesty more than any other trait.”<br /><strong>Jerry Reinsdorf</strong></p>
<p>“I am not bound to win, but I am bound to be true. I am not bound to<br />succeed, but I am bound to live up to what light I have.”<br /><strong>Abraham Lincoln</strong></p>
<p>“Proclaim the truth and do not be silent through fear.”<br /><strong>St. Catherine of Siena</strong></p>
<p>“When you’re dishonest with yourself, you’re disconnected from reality. You’re going to make poor decisions. You’re going to drop out of the moment and you’re going to be less happy and you’re going to be wrong.”<br /><strong>Naval Ravikant</strong></p>
<p>“To be persuasive we must be believable; to be believable we must be credible; to be credible we must be truthful.”<br /><strong>Edward R. Murrow</strong></p>
<p>“What have I always believed? That on the whole, and by and large, if a man lived properly, not according to what any priests said, but according to what seemed decent and honest inside, then it would, at the end, more or less, turn out all right.”<br /><strong>Terry Pratchett</strong></p>
<p>“Most often people seek in life occasions for persisting in their opinions rather than for educating themselves.”<br /><strong>André Gide</strong></p>
<p>“I hope I shall possess firmness and virtue enough to maintain what I consider the most enviable of all titles, the character of an honest man.”<br /><strong>George Washington</strong></p>
<p>“Each time you are honest and conduct yourself with honesty, a success force will drive you toward greater success. Each time you lie, even with a little white lie, there are strong forces pushing you toward failure.”<br /><strong>Joseph Sugarman</strong></p>
<p>“If you can’t be honest with yourself, you can’t fix yourself. Admitting you have a problem is the first step for a good reason.”<br /><strong>Ed Latimore</strong></p>
<p>“Everything we hear is an opinion, not a fact. Everything we see is a perspective, not the truth.”<br /><strong>Marcus Aurelius</strong></p>
<p>“The real source of inner joy is to remain truthful and honest.”<br /><strong>Dalai Lama</strong></p>
<p>“If an offense comes out of the truth, better is it that the offense come than that the truth be concealed.”<br /><strong>Thomas Hardy</strong></p>
<p>“Let&#8217;s tell the truth to people. When people ask, ‘How are you?&#8217; have the nerve sometimes to answer truthfully. You must know, however, that people will start avoiding you because, they, too, have knees that pain them and heads that hurt and they don&#8217;t want to know about yours. But think of it this way: If people avoid you, you will have more time to meditate and do fine research on a cure for whatever truly afflicts you.”<br /><strong>Maya Angelou</strong></p>
<p>“You should not honor men more than truth.”<br /><strong>Plato</strong></p>
<p>“If you’re not honest with yourself, life will never be honest with you.”<br /><strong>Leigh Brackett</strong></p>
<p>“Living with integrity means: Not settling for less than what you know you deserve in your relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speaking your truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in ways that are in harmony with your personal values. Making choices based on what you believe, and not what others believe.”<br /><strong>Barbara De Angelis</strong></p>
<p>You may also find this post with quotes on perspective helpful.</p>
<h2>Brutal Honesty Quotes</h2>
<p>“Most men would rather deny a hard truth than face it.”<br /><strong>George R.R. Martin</strong></p>
<p>“Honesty is more than not lying. It is truth telling, truth speaking, truth living, and truth loving.”<br /><strong>James E. Faust</strong></p>
<p>“Whenever you are about to find fault with someone, ask yourself the following question: What fault of mine most nearly resembles the one I am about to criticize?”<br /><strong>Marcus Aurelius</strong></p>
<p>“Better a cruel truth than a comfortable delusion.”<br /><strong>Edward Abbey</strong></p>
<p>“You have enemies? Good. That means you’ve stood up for something, sometime in your life.”<br /><strong>Winston Churchill</strong></p>
<p>“To believe in something, and not to live it, is dishonest.”<br /><strong>Mahatma Gandhi</strong></p>
<p>“The trouble with most of us is that we’d rather be ruined by praise than saved by criticism.”<br /><strong>Norman Vincent Peale</strong></p>
<p>“If we are not ashamed to think it, we should not be ashamed to say it.”<br /><strong>Marcus Tullius Cicero</strong></p>
<p>“It is not easy to keep silent when silence is a lie.”<br /><strong>Victor Hugo</strong></p>
<p>“Honesty is often very hard. The truth is often painful. But the freedom it can bring is worth the trying.”<br /><strong>Fred Rogers</strong></p>
<p>“To know what is right and not do it is the worst cowardice.”<br /><strong>Confucius</strong></p>
<p>“As long as you’re honest and you articulate what you believe to be true, somebody somewhere will become your enemy whether you like it or not.”<br /><strong>Criss Jami</strong></p>
<p>“If you keep hiding your true self, your life becomes like slow death. Once you become free from the lies and the hiding of yourself, then life becomes vibrant again.”<br /><strong>Ziggy Marley</strong></p>
<p>“The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it.”<br /><strong>Flannery O’Connor</strong></p>
<p>“The main trouble with being an honest man was that it lost you all your illusions.”<br /><strong>James Jones</strong></p>
<p>“It is always helpful to remain honest and truthful in the face of difficulty. “<br /><strong>Dalai Lama</strong></p>
<p>“Men occasionally stumble over the truth, but most of them pick themselves up and hurry off as if nothing ever happened.”<br /><strong>Winston S. Churchill</strong></p>
<p>“If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it.”<br /><strong>Marcus Aurelius</strong></p>
<h2>Quotes About Honesty in Relationships and Love</h2>
<p>“Hiding how you really feel and trying to make everyone happy doesn&#8217;t make you nice, it just makes you a liar.”<br /><strong>Jenny O&#8217;Connell</strong></p>
<p>“Before speaking, consult your inner-truth barometer, and resist the temptation to tell people only what they want to hear.”<br /><strong>Wayne W. Dyer</strong></p>
<p>“Nothing in this world is harder than speaking the truth, nothing easier than flattery.”<br /><strong>Fyodor Dostoevsky</strong></p>
<p>“It is better to offer no excuse than a bad one.”<br /><strong>George Washington</strong></p>
<p>“Just try, try to be right here, open, honest, straight.”<br /><strong>Ram Dass</strong></p>
<p>“Telling the truth and making someone cry is better than telling a lie and making someone smile.”<br /><strong>Paulo Coelho</strong></p>
<p>“It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare.”<br /><strong>Mark Twain</strong></p>
<p>“When a man is penalized for honesty he learns to lie.”<br /><strong>Criss Jami</strong></p>
<p>“Honesty and openness is always the foundation of insightful dialogue.”<br /><strong>Bell Hooks</strong></p>
<p>“Oh, what a tangled web we weave…when first we practice to deceive.”<br /><strong>Walter Scott</strong></p>
<p>“No matter what you do, stand up for who you are and be honest.”<br /><strong>Bryant McGill</strong></p>
<p>“Spontaneity is total sincerity.”<br /><strong>Alan Watts</strong></p>
<p>“Staying silent is like a slow-growing cancer to the soul and a trait of a true coward. There is nothing intelligent about not standing up for yourself.”<br /><strong>Shannon L. Alder</strong></p>
<p>“You can’t lie to your soul.”<br /><strong>Irvine Welsh</strong></p>
<p>“The liar’s punishment is, not in the least that he is not believed, but that he cannot believe anyone else.”<br /><strong>George Bernard Shaw</strong></p>
<p>“Authenticity without empathy is selfish. Authenticity without boundaries is careless.”<br /><strong>Adam Grant</strong></p>
<p>“No persons are more frequently wrong, than those who will not admit they are wrong.”<br /><strong>François de La Rochefoucauld</strong></p>
<p>“Rather fail with honor than succeed by fraud.”<br /><strong>Sophocles</strong></p>
<p>“Don’t assume, ask. Be kind. Tell the truth. Don’t say anything you can’t stand behind fully. Have integrity. Tell people how you feel.”<br /><strong>Warsan Shire</strong></p>
<p>Be sure to also check out this post filled with relationship quotes.</p>
<h2>Quotes on Trust, Loyalty and Honesty</h2>
<p>“And that&#8217;s the thing about people who mean everything they say. They think everyone else does too.”<br /><strong>Khaled Hosseini</strong></p>
<p>“Boastfulness and excessive pride do not equate at all with humility and honesty, credibility and integrity.”<br /><strong>Angelica Hopes</strong></p>
<p>“If you tell the truth, you don’t have to remember anything.”<br /><strong>Mark Twain</strong></p>
<p>“When I do good, I feel good. When I do bad, I feel bad. That’s my religion.”<br /><strong>Abraham Lincoln</strong></p>
<p>“Few are those who see with their own eyes and feel with their own hearts.”<br /><strong>Albert Einstein</strong></p>
<p>“Honesty is the fastest way to prevent a mistake from turning into a failure.”<br /><strong>James Altucher</strong></p>
<p>“We are all travelers in the wilderness of this world, and the best we can find in our travels is an honest friend.”<br /><strong>Robert Louis Stevenson</strong></p>
<p>“Honesty is a very expensive gift, don&#8217;t expect it from cheap people.”<br /><strong>Warren Buffett</strong></p>
<p>“Aim not at being clever but at being true.”<br /><strong>Marty Rubin</strong></p>
<p>“Honesty is telling the truth to ourselves and others. Integrity is living that truth.”<br /><strong>Kenneth H. Blanchard</strong></p>
<p>“I hold the maxim no less applicable to public than to private affairs, that honesty is always the best policy.”<br /><strong>George Washington</strong></p>
<p>“Better to get hurt by the truth than comforted with a lie.”<br /><strong>Khaled Hosseini</strong></p>
<p>“Have the courage to say no. Have the courage to face the truth. Do the right thing because it is right. These are the magic keys to living your life with integrity.”<br /><strong>W. Clement Stone </strong></p>
<p>“I prefer to be true to myself, even at the hazard of incurring the ridicule of others, rather than to be false, and to incur my own abhorrence.”<br /><strong>Frederick Douglass</strong></p>
<p>“If you once forfeit the confidence of your fellow citizens, you can never regain their respect and esteem.”<br /><strong>Abraham Lincoln</strong></p>
<p>“A lie has speed, but truth has endurance.”<br /><strong>Edgar J. Mohn</strong></p>
<p>“The foundation stones for a balanced success are honesty, character, integrity, faith, love, and loyalty.”<br /><strong>Zig Ziglar</strong></p>
<p>“There&#8217;s one way to find out if a man is honest: ask him; if he says yes, you know he&#8217;s crooked.”<br /><strong>Mark Twain</strong></p>
<p>“Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable. Be honest and frank anyway.”<br /><strong>Kent M. Keith</strong></p>
<p>“Honest differences are often a healthy sign of progress.”<br /><strong>Mahatma Gandhi</strong></p>
<p>“Be true to your work, your word, and your friend.”<br /><strong>Henry David Thoreau</strong></p>
<p>“You don’t always have to chop with the sword of truth. You can point with it too.”<br /><strong>Anne Lamott</strong></p>
<p>“Honesty first; then courage; then brains – and all are indispensable.”<br /><strong>Theodore Roosevelt</strong></p>
<p>“Whoever is careless with the truth in small matters cannot be trusted with important matters”’<br /><strong>Albert Einstein</strong></p>
<p>“As I have said, the first thing is to be honest with yourself. You can never have an impact on society if you have not changed yourself. Great peacemakers are all people of integrity, of honesty, but humility.”<br /><strong>Nelson Mandela</strong></p>
<p>“Never be afraid to raise your voice for honesty and truth and compassion against injustice and lying and greed. If people all over the world would do this, it would change the earth.”<br /><strong>William Faulkner</strong></p>
<p>Want even more? Have a look at this post with timeless thoughts on humility.</p>
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